How well do you know me?

Courtesy:expertsystem

I love #personalization and I love #bots a tad bit more than people (truth) especially because they are devoid of emotions 🙂 – maybe that changes by the end of this long post. 

Anyways, the point of this post is to know how much personalization do you think is good personalization ? 

As a customer I like those recommendations , those algorithms remembering and learning from what I see , like , dislike and purchase and numerous other factors and suggest or nudge me to take action – but what I don’t like is when it starts getting biased just like us humans and judges me for having been a crazy lunatic frantically looking for everything self development or thinks I’m a wine connoisseur when I have been reading a bunch of articles on wine because I wanted to gift someone who is a wine connoisseur some good wine. Not my fault – in this situation I love wine but not enough to get married to it (you know what I mean!! ) – I do love my glass of the barley delicacy most times 🙂

So, how can we tweak these algorithms to still track me as someone who loves wine but not term me as a wine connoisseur – since as businesses we rely a lot on social media’s data abundance for marketing – I would definitely want to rely on the social network’s data, but will want to clearly understand my customer and also offer him/her variety, changing it up a bit when needed. I’m not talking about changing our #marketing strategy here or setting up different targeting rules on the Ads manager. I’m talking more about the social media giants and their data we rely on to market. 

Can a well developed algorithm or ML software learn your customer and cater to his/her every mood and adjust and amend accordingly to deliver the most amazing customer experience , such that , you no longer are just the website or store he/she shops from but have become his/her untamed , non-marketed , instinctive appeal ? that this personification of you is more human-like but built by a bot! Do our social networks do complete justice to this? or is the data there too muddy with its own biased judgemental algorithms whose roots were initially developed by human beings? 

I think we have advanced so much with data , that now if Netflix tells me “this is what people in your area like” – I find it so lame! ( no offense – I love #Netflix and I don’t need any nudging to tune into #Netflix – you are already part of my daily dose of SANITY :)) There was a time when I used to be intrigued by that, I think it was #pre-COVIDIFICATION! yeah definitely! 

As a customer and as someone who loves a good experience,  I do love my bots with a little bit of emotion and sensitivity when it comes to catering to my needs – at all other times I just want it to be a bot devoid of emotions 🙂 

Ok, I have successfully made this post non-binary….Yayyy! Does anyone resonate with what I have said above?  Which are your favorite social media networks that you think have got this right? Share your philosophical notions or engineering ideas or just thoughts.

3 thoughts on “How well do you know me?

  1. “I love #bots a tad bit more than people (truth)” — Really !!

    “thinks I’m a wine connoisseur” – I don’t think they think that you’re a wine connoisseur, they just look at data – that you brought wine, nothing more and nothing less; it seems me that you’re extrapolating that information to think that the bots are biased, etc.. They may well be in general, but not in this case. You touched on the topic of bots not having emotions, so yes, they look at cold-hard data and then use it to make suggestions based on data fed to them :-)..

    It may also be that I have less expectations on bots like this in general, at this stage, they’re just evolving..

    I’m not on social media much or look to them this closely, so I have different experience there.

    The Utopia you mentioned in the paragraph “Can a well developed algorithm or ML software…” and later may well be possible in the future.. But it may also be not possible. Corporate-greed is a thing and so is competition and other related items..

    I am sympathetic to your thinking though, but I still think bots cannot replace our needs for human interactions, human touch (not just physical) and personal relationships.. For me, the less intrusive they are, the better. If they can use the data (my shopping patterns, for example) and accurately extrapolate, suggest things, I can be satisfied..

    As I was writing this, it also occurred to me, do humans (we) sometimes not like what we see in the mirror? Meaning if we are shown our own choices, data and patterns, are we too judgmental to dislike our own image? – Curious to hear your thoughts..

    1. Thanks for the comments! Sam. You left us with food for thought 🙂 – your last paragraph is intriguing!! maybe it is …we will never know or will we?

    2. And also I definitely do dream of a world where humans and bots can live side-by-side and the bots helping with enhancing the quality of life of humans and not replacing them per se.

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